Marriage and Couples
I will work with you to sort out and find solutions to conflicting problems in your Relationships.
Marriage and couples need guidance in loving their attachment, while at the same time, trusting their own individuality. Managing emotional life, sorting out conflicts between thought and feeling is the guide to sensing emotional freedom, while being an in relationship.
When counseling family relationships, I relate to understanding the quality of attachment between family members, the couple, parenting and the children.
The goal is directed at replacing negative communication into the positive.
A couple is often asked to individually participate in a pre-counseling consultations. The individual goal is then planned around improving emotional strategies; by listening and learning how to deliver thoughts and feelings, and self expressing. The couple learns how to work together, stimulating specific behavioral changes. Sessions promote conversation about similarities, as well as, individual differences. Couples will find ways to unlearn old negative patterns and interpersonal related conflicts.
"The couples conflict is not the struggle to control another person, but a struggle to control the definition of the relationship." Milton Erickson M.D.